Confidence: Anyone can have it but How?

Going through the BC(big chop) or even transitioning you may have blah days. I know I did and sometimes still do so what are some ways to combat this problem?

Purk up those lips: by that I mean choose a radiant color that you have never tried before. Looking for a great red lip? Want to try the neon trend GO FOR IT! it's amazing how just making our lips POP! Make us feel good about about ourselves. You can check out a few of my favorite bight colors here.  Not sure what color to chose? Go to any major beauty supply chain and have a technician help you find the best color for you.

Accessorize Accessorize Accessorize: sometimes putting on an amazing pair of earrings or banging pair of shoes really plays up an Outfit and also puts some pep in your step. When you feel like you look great then it will come off in your attitude.

That's what friends are for: no this is not just a title of an amazing 80's song but it's so important to surround yourself with positive people. It's a k ow fact that positivity will help you go a long way and don't have anyone around you "burning your trash" when you have a close group of friends supporting you it helps you with confidence and remember when it comes to that wonderful trip that is called life: Not everyone is meant to stay on the train for the duration of the trip. So don't feel bad if you have to get rid of some luggage

Embrace your uniqueness: This one is easier said then done. We all are different and have differences we need to learn to love these differences and embrace them. Once you truly love yourself then you exude confidence and everyone around you can tell

Let the haters hate: everyone has opinions about EVERYTHING so when you feel like you look great people may not. But that is just their insecurities they aren't strong enough to walk outside their home and not care a out what people think.

And lastly The outside is just as important as the inside: take pride in how you present yourself. Wear something you wouldn't  normally wear. One of the reasons I loved the big fat summer challenge was because challenged the participants to wear things they had doubts about. Your outfit can work you up quick. Let's face it if you feel beautiful on the outside it makes you fill good on the inside.

We are ALL beautiful and don't let anyone tell you differently