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If You Are Fat and Lose Weight That Doesn't Mean You Are Fatphobic

Some feel that when a plus-size person decides to become more active and possibly lose weight that the act of losing weight is in fact fatphobic. How so? Well If you truly loved yourself then you woujld’t want to change anything about you right? You must dislike being fat and so losing weight is an outright attack against ALL plus-sized people. Boxing in a person at a particular weight and thinking they should never change is problematic within itself.

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How to Set up A Calm Environment for Homeschool or E-Learning

I don’t think there is a parent out there with school-age kids calm and collected as this school year looms over our heads. Whether you are homeschooling or e-learning things will be very different than years before. Trying to figure out how to set up a space conducive for learning can be overwhelming.

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Five Ways YOU Can Incorporate Diversity Into Parenthood

The truth is, these discussions can be uncomfortable if you never have them. This is a conversation that you will regularly need because they are learning and need to be taught. To get something ingrained in your mind, you need repetition. You are also battling against biases that are in the world that they see on the daily. So what is a parent to do? What are some ways that you can make sure your home and parenting are diverse?

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Favorite Quarantine Buys: Family Edition

When the stay at home order went into effect in March., I REALLY thought I would be saving money since I wasn’t going out as much. Then reality set in. I wanted to make wings at home since I couldn’t go get them, My kids were no longer able to play at the park or go to school. My dog couldn’t go to the park and run the energy off. I had to figure out a new way of life and what would work.

I wanted to share a few of the things I have bought while we were under the stay at home order. Granted some states are opening up but, for those of you who can stay home and have decided to do so a little longer here are some things that can make the stay a little easier on everyone in the family.

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DateNight Ideas While Under Stay At Home Orders

Dating is interesting right now. I have to say that when I read this story earlier it tickled me and I love that these two thought outside the box. So many are at home and not going out because we are under stay at home orders, which means any nonessential travel should not happen. Does that mean you should stop dating your partner? ABSOLUTELY NOT.

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2020 Ain't PLAYING With Us

Hello Dear Readers. I have NOT been on top of my writing this year. I haven’t felt that creative. Not only has it been a LOOOONG year (yes, I am aware that we are only THREE months into this year), I have to say I am proud of all of you who are reading. I know this year is kicking our behind. But guess what you have made it through 100% of the bad days, and that is something to celebrate.

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First Rule Of Parenting: Build A Village!

We have all heard the adage, it takes a village to raise a child. It’s true, but sadly in the time we live, that village isn’t as readily available as it use to be. Big mama doesn’t live next door, Aunts and Uncles live across the country from one another. Neighbors hardly speak to one another. So if you aren’t blessed to live near family, what are you going to do?

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Girl Code & Dating…..Sis, Go On And Date Your Friends Ex. Here is Why.

Just because it didn’t work out with YOU, what makes you think you can hold that person hostage and not find love elsewhere. I think the problem lies in the whole soulmate thinking. (You can check out why my husband is not my soulmate here) There isn’t just ONE person put on this earth for you to find. There are many different personalities out there that can mesh and work together.

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DIY - How To Replace Buttons With Snaps

If you have a special needs child, you may start to think of ways to help make their life a little easier. I noticed he was wearing a pair of red shorts a little more than his other pairs, and, After talking with my son, I realized he liked snaps on his pants instead of buttons. It makes it easier for him to be a little more independent. So I set off to find a tailor so I could get this done professionally.

Well, I thought to myself and realized that would mean I would have to drop off said clothing, pick it up and wait a few days until I could pick them up. I didn’t have that kind of time,

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Is Submission In A Marriage Outdated?

Why are we treating the word submission like its a BAD word? The word is defined as :The action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another. This means that humility and meekness must be shown on behalf of the person who submits. Those are not archaic or bad qualities. We submit to MANY things daily.

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Pumpkin Spice Imma Let You Finish But Apple Cider Is the Best Fall Scent Of All Time

Autumn is the one time of year that I miss the crisp weather of Michigan. Well, since I can’t be in my home state, I cheat a little bit by making my home smell like autumn. I use to be a fan of bath and body works and their seasonal candles, but you know everything causes cancer now, so I decided to make my scents out of the essential oils that I own.

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Money Management Tips I Wish I Knew In My Twenties

There is something whimsical about your twenties. You are no longer a child, yet not quite an adult as you enter into your twentieth year. By the time you exit your twenties you hope that you have made it through with grace and can take the knowledge you gained with you into your thirties

The overwhelming part is, in your twenties, you now are in charge of your education after a curriculum has been continuously given to you for years. You must now figure out life as well as how to maneuver it. It’s a huge responsibility, and one that depending on how you were brought up, can be an advantage or disadvantage. For me, it was the latter.

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